About Choices

Sometimes, when you give people options to choose from or choices to make, there would always be a choice that you would favour and you would want them to pick. Inevitably, if you do this, as I learned, you need to be prepared for disappointment.

Lets say you give a person Choice A and Choice B and you are just hoping and hoping and hoping that the person would choose Choice A, and lets just say the person knows that it would mean the world to you if he chooses Choice A.

But even with that knowledge, the person chooses Choice B instead.

What do you do then? How would you react? I suppose, being a mature adult, you would respect the person's decision and make the best out of it. But even mature adults have feelings, and I guess you would feel disappointed and possibly hurt that the person didn't choose the option that you were wishing for him to.

I'm disappointed and that's about it. But Joyce, it's no big deal so just get over it.